Don't worry, I am no dummy. The niceness either means he is thrilled I am going to the atty so he can be free and let me do the work.....or it means he has already started his own devious plans so is not worried about mine. Or as strange as this might sound, it may mean absolutelly nothing. When we are still hanging on to the rope, we try to interpret every single communication. As we get better and let go, we care less and less about the whys and why nots. And we put on weight....someone told me that i put on weight...last night.....I took that as a compliment. SO BBJ, you are doing very well...just try to avoid him a little mor eif you can. I know you are seeing a lawyer on monday. That must be very difficult for you. i sense it in your fairness with Dan. I think you need to losse that. Tell yourself that you are not going to take advantage of the situation. You did not initiate it. Now that it is clear that this is the path he chose, YOU NEED to PROTECT YOURSELF. You need to fight for what is legally yours! Not a penny more and not one less. It is time for business and business is not always nice.
