... I am sitting here today, reading articles about forgiveness and anger management and trying to set a path of how to move on with the less possible damage for me and the kids.
Hi K,
When I first moved to piecing I struggled with all that stuff of forgiveness and suppressing my anger towards W, and if I’m really honest, even though I write about her in good terms, I don’t think I can say that I have forgiven her for all the lies, tretchry, deceit, and just plain cheating.
There isn’t a day that goes by without me thinking of all the things that went on, it’s just that now I am strong enough to keep them locked away somewhere not far from the back of my mind.
I’m not sure why I started writing this piece, but I think it was because I wanted to say that no matter what stage we get to all those feelings are still with us, but we just get better at dealing with them.
I'm sure you will be able to deal with all of your difficult facts as you start to move on.