Ok, I am stunned, shocked, etc. at these sexless, baloonless M's. I don't know why anyone would put up with that. And if these WAW's are orgasmless, I don't see it as the H's fault. Just because you aren't in tune with your own body is not his fault.
Speak up, ladies! Jeez! But not in the humiliating, pain-inflicting way. So, you want your man to read your mind? What is wrong with just saying "Touch me here, stroke me there, grope me here, suck me there....?" I think a man would find that very helpful, and probably hot too.
I can hear it now, "Oh, I could NEVER say those things to my beloved!" But it's interesting how "Ugh, this is boring!" slips out so easily. Yikes!
I guess I am also shocked because I am a bit (quite a bit in some cases) older than most of the posters here. When did you crazy kids get so hung up about sex? Good God!
As for "spontaneous sex", that is ridiculous. Most sexual encounters are planned. Dates are planned. A's are planned. Spontaneous? R-i-i-i-ght. Anyone still going to stick with that silly notion? Is anyone here going to try to tell me that making a date for a specific time, getting dressed, going out, coming home and getting it on is spontaneous?
And since when is sex not fun just because it's not "spontaneous?"
