Well, I'm still here. The naps after meals really ruin a night's sleep. But I feel compelled to say that reading this board for 2.5 years has really opened my eyes to how many people, mostly women, don't want to have sex. For whatever reason, don't like it. And I think the things they say about why they don't want it are mainly misleading. They are excuses, not reasons. (And I am excluding you here AAK, because I am talking about your basic normal sex, not experimental stuff.) And I agree that it should give everyone pause to think about re-committing to a non-sexual marriage, mother of your children or not.
