Posted by: robx Planning sex or other similar activities may sound boring but it turns out that people who do this have more satisfying sex lives than people who have spontaneous sex....
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Posted by: aliveandkicking Point taken. But it doesn't seem to have worked for SP and his W.
True, alive, but we never really committed to it. And by "we" I mean "her" -- lots of excuses: Aunt Flo, tired, have to prep for work, worn out from gym, can we switch to tomorrow, I want to catch up on TiVo, it's too late (a perennial favorite -- had to get upstairs before 9:00 p.m. else "too late").
But then this was the woman who declared -- well before the bomb -- that if she had to choose between an extra hour's sleep and an hour's sex, she'd choose the hour of sleep every day of the week and twice on Sunday. It's not the scheduling that failed, it was the keeping-to-the-scheduling.
And with respect to (I think) @Kett, what was boring wasn't the "us" -- it was the "Smiley's Person." That was made quite clear in post-ugh discussion.
