H just called and left a message, wanted to make sure everything is ok with me. He's concerned because I mentioned some tests I was having done a few weeks ago (I needed the $ for it but I told him it was no big deal which it isn't). Told me he is going to the play tonight and an old x-friend will be there. And, he apologized if it's annoying me that he is calling.
That's good isn't it? I haven't followed your entire situation but I would think it's a good sign that he is concerned that he is actually annoying you by calling.
Well my dear, I'm going Gucci on him (as you say)...it is actually really throwing me off because I can't tell if he is concerned or if his ego is suffering and he is baiting me. I mean, the tests thing I already cleared up weeks ago.
I don't know if and when I give in to him and accept an invitation or conversation...but I do know that I am going to look adorable when I drop my kids off tomorrow.
Bloody hell, I just want to stop giving a sh*t and I was this close.
But, I am still a million times better than before. Just getting too distracted too easily.
I don't know if and when I give in to him and accept an invitation or conversation...but I do know that I am going to look adorable when I drop my kids off tomorrow.
Aw, nerts to that! When don't you look adorable? He said fondly.
As for when and if to accept....Schnarch, sports-fan, Schnarch! You'll know it when you know it. It won't require questioning.
H just called and left a message, wanted to make sure everything is ok with me. He's concerned because I mentioned some tests I was having done a few weeks ago (I needed the $ for it but I told him it was no big deal which it isn't). Told me he is going to the play tonight and an old x-friend will be there. And, he apologized if it's annoying me that he is calling.
He's reminding me a bit of me Keep holding your line. I'm guessing its hard right now.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09
Dropped the kids off to H this morning. He was friendly but clearly agitated. Mentioned something about my not replying to his texts and emails. I said if he asks me anything or if there is anything that requires a response, I answer. I was in a great mood.
He then texted me that kids mentioned something about an event we went to where "mommy's special friend" was there. I responded LOL...he's in his 60's and he and his wife had invited us...H said he figured but he "had to ask"...did he? I chose to answer him because I am holding firm to not having the kids around anyone I am intimate with and I want that clear and hopefully reciprocated.
And then...we need to get together and talk and it seems that I'm avoiding it. I said "sure. email me."
Then..."You look great by the way," to which I have not responded.
Having a great day, busy, but felt like posting...
I am wondering how much of what I should discuss with him...I am totally ready to deal with D, just in limbo waiting to find out if I will have a chunk of $ or not which makes a big difference. I really need to be clear about what I will and will not discuss at our meeting or if I should even have such a meeting without a third party present. Thoughts?
Keep holding your line. I'm guessing its hard right now.