Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[Faith2010]

This morning H was being all loving so I ask why. H says he still loves me and doesn't have plans to leave. I asked if he still had plans to meet OW. H lies, says he doesn't know where I got that from. I said his name and gave him a look. H relented and said they did talk about meeting but it is not going to happen. Whether it's the truth remains to be seen. I was pleased that at least he admitted they had talked about it.

The sitch regarding S is beyond stressful. An accusation was made against him by a cousin and S insists it did not happen. I believe S but am completely baffled why his cousin would lie. Honestly I have no idea how to handle it. To top it off, I've been told the SIL that I've been close to has said some things about S. I have yet to talk to her.

There's only so much I can take. Once again, I wish I had a rock to climb under...