Hi searching. How's the home hunt going? I'm doing the same and having a terrible time. Curious where you are that it's enjoyable! LOL. For you it's a stress reliever, for me it's the cause of intense anxiety!
I wonder how things are as you approach the transition date. In my sitch there was less than 3 wks notice and it was extremely unpleasant. It got nearly unbearable. My partner was angry and miserable and life was pretty hard for a few wks. I told him that although things didn't work out, it wasn't for lack of feelings and so I hoped that things wouldn't deteriorate further than they had already. He said no they don't have to. But.. they surely did! He wasn't communicating about his specific plans, so I would hold my breath every night when I opened the door, would it be disappointment that he was still here, or sadness that he were gone. There was profound loss and empitness when the day arrived. He moved while I was at work so it was just awful to come home and see every sign of him ripped from my home. My D was home when he left. and she'd called me and said "the bald eagle has flown the coop," (he wears a bald head so that was her humorous way to fill me in.) But there was relief from the pressure that we'd experienced in the wks leading up to the move. For quite a while I found it hard to sleep. I finally moved the bedroom furniture around and got new sheets and that helped. I have to admit, although I still miss him, I don't necessarily miss living with him. That's my experience anyway. I imagine it will vary greatly on the individual circumstances. How is it going?
