This makes me so sad to read, hm. I just want to scream, what is wrong with all these people, your supposed friends should be supporting you!
Have you looked into a Divorce Care group? I am going through it now, it's 14 weeks and tomorrow will be week 4 for me. It is no cost (there is a workbook, but only if you choose to buy one, it's not mandatory).
Maybe something like that would give you some connections with people who understand what you're going through.
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011