Fallgirl, It's been a while since we spoke. I found out my H was having an EA/?PA and filed for legal separation, b/c assets were being moved around and I needed to protect myself and the kids financially. Reading through you posts, I would say be glad your H is still there- it gives you a chance to show him your improved outlooks and attitudes. Once he's gone, you don't see him and you've no idea where he's at, which is very hard.

I too pray the Rosary and always feel such peace afterwards. Our Lady will take care of us when we're in pain. We must remember we cannot blame God for our H's poor actions/decisions bc God gave man free will! And men seem to use it to screw up their lives a lot.

Hang in there, Fallgirl. It was good to touch base with you again.


Me 39
H 42
M 11, T 12
S 10,6
D 3
EA 2007
separated in same home since 3/10/09