Really struggled today! I was out all day but H arranged to meet my son for lunch, I had left him a note about certain bills but it did not ask him to pay them! It really spoilt my whole day as I was worried sick about what I was gonna find when I got home, but when I got home he had paid the bills, which ok is nice but we had agreed to discuss any large bills to be paid as we are still using a joint account.. Have sent an email asking him not to do that again without discussing my needs with me, not sure I should have contacted him at all, but didnt want him to think he could just ignore my requests to be civil! This is just such a mess how can he just leave and not seem to give a hoot about me any more after all this time! Im really really struggling so some advice would be nice!


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W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!