well, you're right it wasn't much of a fight but it suggests some signs of assuming responsibility for the situation and the answer...as opposed to blaming others. I haven't read your entire thread but it seems like a positive sign if I understand your sitch.
AKA: "Ben the school teacher" --- Me:45, W:41 | Ds:10,12&14 | M:18, T:20 Me: MLC+PA+WAS+Separated 10/08 My Request to Reconcile Denied 7/09 W w/OM 6/09-11/09