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Oh, for goodness sake, did you plan your encounters too?


Ummmmmm, yes. We were doing that Oprah/Dr. Laura Berman/plan your couples date night thing (unevenly and seldom successfully) for about 2 years. Why do you ask -- were we not supposed to?

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Anyhoo, EVERYTHING else aside...NO BJs?????? Ever????


Not since the elder George Bush was president.

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And your manly friends' advice is the same kind of simple malarky everyone says.


Of course it is. But sometimes there's a nugget of gold in them thar hills. It all depends upon what you make of the malarkey. (And tell me in all honesty that 9/10ths of what's in DR isn't in its own way simplistic malarkey -- doesn't mean it isn't worthwhile.)

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Why not go into MC with your newfound confidence and just take it in...see what you're dealing with?


That's what I'm doing. Tuesday week.