"SP, my man," said he, whilst bench-pressing an imported automobile, "If you choose on the basis of Themselves and not of you, what happens when Themselves leave the nest? If you're not True to yourself, are you really modeling what you want for them? Maybe you are; maybe you aren't -- spot me here, will you, I want to add a Chevy to this -- but it seems to me to be something worth considering."
And he was right. It is worth considering.
How about this? Do what you feel like doing. All of this cerebral stuff has little to do with what will be, only what was. And your manly friends' advice is the same kind of simple malarky everyone says.
Obviously, there is value in considering the mother of your kids as a prospect. So, let her be a prospect. You want to make a decision...so go with no until you feel compelled to reconsider. It's ok, you're entitled.
Why not go into MC with your newfound confidence and just take it in...see what you're dealing with?
