You know Kalni that he is the broken one not you. You can't fix him. Are you still seeing your T? Sounds like it is time for a visit.
You said when he stayed you were the only obstacle to his happiness you were wrong. His weekness was his in his way, not you. Like my H, your H would rather look like the good guy and go through the motions than to be honest with the person he promised to love forever.
Stay strong!
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008