hhh - my H and I are also separated and living apart - he's been threatening legal separation and probably divorce before this better spell - so I feel your pain re: it feels like it's over. We've lived apart for 4 months. This is why I am so scared to believe it could be going so well, that he is spending so much time with the family. Even a couple weeks ago, we were doing nothing more than passing off our S.
EB - You're right. slow and steady. Things could go back down any minute and I know it. Thank you for your constant reminders - I need them!
