Score one for me, I think. We got back home after our show/date today, which went well. W and I were talking to our babysitter who was going to sit later tonight for a newly D'd mom. She tells us both the mom and dad are crazy. Dad shows up at mom's house unannounced to check where his ex-wife is and who is at house.
Afte sitter leaves, I said wow, that sounds crazy. W says that's strange how H shows up unannounced. I said well, he obviously is checking out when his ex W is out and who is at the house. W says, "But HE left her.". Without missing a beat, I looked up from the pork loin I was prepping for the grill and said, that doesn't matter b/c often the one who leaves doesn't know what they are losing until after they leave which leads to a change of heart. Then I returned to my pork loin.
My comment does not appear to have ticked off W. And if it did, so be it. I don't care. I said what I meant and meant what I said.