Ahhh, another "Gone With the Wind" fan! I think Melanie is a sweetheart and would make the "best friend" in the world, but I think of you, Dia, as being much more spicy & fun with your H. I find it hard to believe you would take as much as Mellie would. She would simply look the other way and cry. Do you think that is what you do?
Speaking of that movie, I used Rhett Butler's character once as an example to a young man here on the board, and he prefered to think of what would James Bond do in a situtuation. James Bond is totally unrealistic.... But, whatever works!
Okay, I'll hand it back over to the owner of this thread.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
But, whatever works! 
