Hey here to say one day at a time seems to be working although I am terrified to hope that things are going well.
Last weekend, I was so upset due to "See you in two days" from H. This weekend, as a contrast, he slept over (separate rooms) the last two nights, spent family time, and today woke up and said he needs to do some work and go to the gymn, and will be home for dinner. Spent all morning with S so I could sleep in. When I didn't pressure him to talk about "plans" for the weekend he seems to just be hanging out day by day.
Dare I say this feels normal? Like before separation? I'm scared to trust it. I'm feeling the fear - he must be too. But his actions are demonstrating coming closer.
