Must've Been That Mojo Boogie

[Kettricken]

I can't imagine saying anything like that, either, and I've been there. That absolutely doesn't mean she said it WITH INTENT TO WOUND. Hell, maybe she did, but it is the assessment of a fool to *assume* that, since it's equally possible that she was sick to death of tepid, unconnected, futile sex and/or relationship and lashing out in pain for lack of reasonable skills to communicate openly/well about it, like AK says above.

This board and this world are full of intelligent, educated, well-intentioned people who find their marital ship foundering on this particular rock. Ego seems to be SO inextricably wrapped around sexuality and very few people know where to begin addressing bedroom stuff. It's sad, but not surprising, how couples who would go to the ends of the earth to find the right expert help for their children if they needed it seem completely unable to take the step toward seeking a sex therapist or even talking openly about the problems for the sake of their marriage and themselves.