Hello there. Thanks for lurking, but thanks even more for posting. I always enjoy hearing from others.
The artichoke quote is accurate. It is a good visual for sure and I'll use it.
Thanks for the words of support about my situation. I'm doing what I can to build a foundation first, but I have to be honest that it is tough to be this patient. I guess that is because I've never done relationships "the right way" before, so I've never had to wait. That is clearly why I've never had a lasting, solid relationship. I also never had one modelled for me, so I'm basically learning it all on my own.
However, I know that it is best to do it the right way, so I'll keep plugging forward as I'm currently going. It is new and different however, but I know that all good things are worth the wait, so I'm in no real hurry to go anywhere.
Finally, as far as calling on me for a male perspective, please feel free by all means. I don't have all the answers for sure, but I do know I've learned quite a bit and if something I've learned can help someone else, then I'm always all for sharing.
Again, great to hear from you and I hope I'll hear back from you again soon.
