I know, that's the way they do it to survive the guilt, it still is very hard to accept he was just another weak man looking for a way out, with absolutely no consideration of my feelings...
You are exactly right about this. My W used to make ME feel guilty for being jealous of her "friendship" with one of her male friends. He would constantly call the house, especially when he had been drinking. She would end up talking to him like she was this school girl with a crush. I'd try to make the case that it didn't seem appropriate and she would lay into me. I would end up apologizing to her for doubting her...all the time they were actually sleeping together. Pathetic to say the least.
