Interesting. Still having good conversations, mixed with coldness. Coldness is normally when W is mad about something i.e. late for work, kidos not listening. Dog thing really effected her in some interesting ways.
Saw her on Wednesday and she was in a bad mood (seems to be a 50/50 split). I ask is everything ok? W: No. M: Oh what's up? W: Don't worry about it its my problem. You don't need to worry about my issues. M: OK Fast forward to Thursday and I'm feeling good. Talk to her for 30 minutes or so, all upbeat small talk. (Baby steps?) Wasn't sure to go here or not but I did anyway. M: One more thing, you keep saying that none of this is about me that these are your issues. OK I get that part. What I don't get is if you are having so many issue why are you not talking to someone like an IC? I don't want to belabor the point but you were seeing an IC then just stopped. W: Good point. I will call IC on Monday. She called me again on Friday so I guess I didn't scare her off.
_________________________ Me-41 W-39 M-15 yrs T-17 yrs D-12 S-9 S-8 B 5/08 S 1/09