For months/years I thought she was a symptom of the kind of relationship we had in late 2006 begining 2007. He was so unhappy he turned to her, now I know, that after 2 horrible years with our kids constantly sick, he didnt bother to take care of us, he immediately looked for love elsewhere, really messing with my head and manipulating the sitch so that he could pin the blame on me. I know, that's the way they do it to survive the guilt, it still is very hard to accept he was just another weak man looking for a way out, with absolutely no consideration of my feelings...
