FYI, yesterday I gave him notice I was going to my attorney on Monday. I did it late afternoon, once I was sure he couldn't get into his attorney's before Monday (although as he says he doesn't have one on retainer yet...).
Why did I tell him? Because I am willing to get in the mud when I have to, but I won't do it just for the sake of doing it. I made it clear to him that I wanted to know when he was going to see an attorney, and he told me. I told him I wanted to know when I was being served, and he told me he had no plans for that yet and nobody on retainer.
So anyway I felt I ought to give him that same courtesy, even IF he didn't deserve it. So I let him know I was going to the atty on Monday. I expected the tactics to begin.
Instead, he was friendly on the phone last night. Today when he met me to pick up Nathan he suggested meeting at a restaurant (fast food). We all went in and he bought lunch for everyone and was chatty and pleasant.
He and Nathan left the restaurant, I took Sydney out but we went back in so she could go to the bathroom. Came back to the car, 5 missed calls from Dan. That never happens so I called in case something was wrong with Nathan. Nope. Dan was calling to warn me that there was some construction debris/nails/etc in the roadway outside the restaurant. He didn't want me to get a flat tire...ohhhh kay.
Then an hour later a text that Nathan was in a trance, loving the air show. Thanks again.
Don't worry, I am no dummy. The niceness either means he is thrilled I am going to the atty so he can be free and let me do the work.....or it means he has already started his own devious plans so is not worried about mine.
Gotta go get ready for the benefit tonight. Hope we raise a lot of money for my aunt and uncle!!
