But not heinous to feel it. Honest to feel it. Haven't most of us, at one time or another, in a LTR?
Which is worse? Voicing it like that, sans tact? Or not voicing it at all based on the assumption that (a) his ego wouldn't survive it or (b) he didn't care enough to try to change things up or (c) didn't have the intelligence, creativity, and mad man skillz to succeed even he he did try?
Tough call.
"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes. Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert