Well, I'm guessing the experts here are going to say no to the brunch.
A&K I have to admit that while I was slowly coming around over a 10 month period, it was the OM and fear of losing W forever that put the fear of god in me and lit a fire under me like nothing I've ever experienced. If we had chugged along over those many months having brunch, etc. maybe I wouldn't have had my makeup call!? Seems like there's something to this method.
Thank you. I have to remember that this M is already dead and that any remote possibility that we could be together would require him to pretty much get where you are. I doubt his ego will allow it...so, onward.