Looks like I might soon be LBS...newcomer here

[brownidmom]

I was in IC for a while. When she told me that I was young enough to find true love again, I never went back.

I honestly don't believe that his issue is with what I did as much as it is that I lied about it. THat said, if I hadn't lied, we would never have gotten together in the first place.

I know he has trust issues. H's father left when he was 5 and I don't think he has trusted since.

Over the years, I have come to realize I don't like everything about H but he makes me feel safe and I never got married with an attitude of D if it got too hard. I said for better or worse. The boys make it much more complicated. I want so much for them to be happy, terrified of what an S or D will do to them.