Here's something funny for you. A couple months back my W had a dream where I had someoone else. It really seemed to rock her to the core. Keep in mind...SHE is the WAS!

Even through all of this I don't think your W would want to see you with someone else any more than you would want to see her and OM.

Just my 2 cents.

Me: 35
W: 31
S:9
M: 10 years
Together 13
MySitch - Ups & Downs
She moved out the day before Thanksgiving 2009, over 13 months post-bomb.