Ok, Storm

Just to get through this patch I`m

...keeping the face on, no bad humour/sadness dressed up/looking good
..keeping with the things that make me feel good-mediation tapes, sleep, exercise, fun with the kids
..dropping off some of the therapy visits-fortnightly instead of weekly.
...telling her that right now is NOT a good time to rip through family of origin stuff for me and that I`d like to feel more supported in getting through this WITH H
...show H that I am moving on-not going to trawl through past stuff with him esp as he is decided that we`re done.
..stay out of his way even more
...have lots of fun

As it happens, I`m booked into a full day of meditation and yoga tomorrow. So won`t see much of him at all.