The kids really know who is the one that wants out. Think about who they have meltdowns with. Kalni is right, they try to protect the WAS. They walk on eggshells around the WAS because they don't want have them gone forever. My Ds only have meltdowns with me. Even though I sometimes feel they blame me, I guess deep down they know who is willing to fight and who isn't.
R 23 years M 20 years Bomb June 2007 S Oct 2007 Ds 11 & 16 Ds and I moved out Aug. 2008
