(Afterthought: with no intention of attributing evil... don't forget that FFF has a horse in this race too. Sophisticated intellectual women don't really compete less, they just know how to make it a lot more subtle. Too subtle to be aware of it themselves sometimes. IMHO.)
I caught that, too, Kett. SP --- FFF will not be good counsel for you at this time (MHO). She may be an interesting distraction, and she certainly is 'gucci bait'... but she's probably not objective.
Cheers~~~
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08