Newcomer, want to keep my hope alive!

[iwantittowork]

Have not posted in a couple days, but I think I am going to need some expert advice/help here.

Went skydiving yesterday, and that was as completely uplifting and exhilarating as I thought it would be, but today some stuff has come up that supersedes that.

Talking to W this morning, and I am going away Sunday night for a week for work at the W says to me, why don't you get laid while your over there? I told her, sorry I am a married man and not interested in that.

Too me, that's a way of her trying to push off her own guilt about something, saying that to me, so I pushed her a bit, and she has admitted at least that someone at her gym has been asking her out. Of course, she says that she has not, and will not be going out with him.

However, I understand that someone showing her that kind of interest, with her in the place she is, would be at least EA like territory. Thoughts? I am on unknown ground here, and while I don't see the signs of an A, wondering if I should get investigator to really prove it?

I am kind of at a loss as to what to do next. Today, I am supposed to spend all day with her and my d8, and somehow need to focus on d8 to keep PMA.

Anyone at all with advice here, please chime in..