My Intro: Thanks for Reading!

[RedSoxFan]

OK this is what I ended up sending:

"W,

I understand your feelings about wanting to go and support your friend. If you feel that strongly about attending because it is the right thing for you to do I will support you in that decision. We've already agreed about the kids' exposure. I'd love to have them stay with me

Me"

I then received a call at 10PM while I was at a restaurant. Called W back and she was very angry. She said we had a misunderstanding about what she agreed to with respect to kids being exposed to OM. She said she agreed to stock overnights and limit but not completely eliminate. It caught me off guard. I just said that I disagreed and it went back and forth until she made a comment about my being delusional and I ended the conversation.

I received a followup email that I read late last night. It made me really, really sad. I'll post it in a followup.