Oh, I am so happy to hear from you, NNP. You sound good in spite of the circumstances. How wise you are to do Divorce Care before the actual divorce. I never joined a group although I bought the tapes. I found it helpful that my emotions were normal. I am trying to get myself back on track.....moving out of state was my first step to really separate from my exH. We have a cordial relationship which is good, but I need to completely separate from him before I can think of "moving on". He still is confused....actually told me he still wasn't completely happy and he wasn't 100% sure he had done the right thing. My D18 talked about his relationship with his gf for the first time. It sounds like he is a bit hen-pecked. Haha. He actually even asked if I thought I'd ever re-marry him down the road if he decided he'd made a mistake. That is certainly not healthy for ME!
How are your boys?
Sorry I did a bit of a high-jack, NNP. Good luck with the financial stuff. Keep in touch please. Mat
