Hi,
So I get a text from H last night simply saying "how are you and your mom doing?" (she had heart surgery last month, doing well now). Do I respond w a simple "great" Do I say "recovering slowly, getting better, i'm doing well..." I know less is more. But here's the thing - I almost think he wants to know we are doing well, and that I am in an emotionally better place, so he can continue w the Bomb. Who knows? I know I should NOT mind-read. I know men like to see strong/happy women, but somehow I think H wants to see me strong/happy so he knows I won't fall apart if he continues to push for D.

Other than that I am doing OK on own, making plans w friends, praying and trying to stay positive.