I dont know why, I but I have overcome the point of who is filing in my case. It is not a valid point anymore. Who cares who files? Who fought for the marriage is clear. We did our best Bbj. And they didnt. I think sometimes we use this emotional blockage to justify our unwilingless to proceed as we should.
On another note, my H told my parents and friends that when he told the kids we are staying "separated" my son gave him the green light by saying "whatever is best for you dad". How stupid can this man be, my son is trying to protect HIM. To me he had a meltdown, crying and begging not to divorce...
