Thanks JCJ - great words of wisdom there.

I too wish that I had found DB'ing earlier ... I feel like I have wasted a lot of time and opportunity - especially at the beginning of July when, if I had acted a lot differently, I could have still had H at home and not for him to have left.

We live and learn.

I am trying now to make a DB Salad and use everything together but in complimentary style ... semi-dark, words of affirmation, quality time (when we get any) and evidence of my GAL'ing. Securing a job would be the Dream Topping 180!

Probably got it all wrong, again!


WAH 43; W 47
M 16; T 17
Cats 15 & 6
Bomb 27/05/09
ow 28/06/09

"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"

Started counselling 17/08/09