I did read the 5 LL as well as almost every relationship book ever published.
My W's primary LL is Words Affirmation. It goes hand in hand with her low self-esteem. So I've been sprinkling her with praises here and there and very careful to not go over the top.
I'll double check on your sitch in a bit.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
