Stuck - have you read 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman?? I got bored with it at first but revisiting today it makes sense. I didn't start at the beginning but jumped straight in to the chapter entitled Loving the Unlovely ... then I skipped about a bit but got to where I needed to be.

I learned that I have been guilty of totally draining my H's love tanks and in turn, he mine. We have not communicated properly for many years, according to Dr. Chapman!

Just wondering if this would make a difference for your sitch - to see the confusion it brought about though, visit my latest post - would also be glad of some feedback!!


WAH 43; W 47
M 16; T 17
Cats 15 & 6
Bomb 27/05/09
ow 28/06/09

"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"

Started counselling 17/08/09