So do you intend to never talk to her face to face? I think something needs to be done about that because in the end you will have to co-parent with her. And you can't do that through just email.
Both of you are running away from each other. Better to face the music of each other and get it all out. But that's just my 2 cents.
I agree with sandi about documenting everything. She really is punishing the kids by not showing up to their games. She's got some major issues.
As usual, I'm prayin for you and the family.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.