I don't want this to come across like beating a dead horse/wallowing in the past .... it may or may not matter much for your relationship with WAW, but it hella sure matters going forward into any new relationship.
(to repeat myself) What did you think when she said the ugh boring during foreplay? What did you say/do? Why?
What did you think when you got the lackluster response to your anniversary gestures? What did you say/do? Why?
You may not want to go there right now, and that's fine ... but I'd sure recommend going there at some point.
(Afterthought: with no intention of attributing evil... don't forget that FFF has a horse in this race too. Sophisticated intellectual women don't really compete less, they just know how to make it a lot more subtle. Too subtle to be aware of it themselves sometimes. IMHO.)
"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes. Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert