hey there! ya, 1 week, that is crazy. but, thinking back, when my H and I had our first baby, he was living with his mom in OK and I with mine in KS and you know, he really didn't have a great bond with our son. I mean he was away from him for 3-4 years. I mean, how can you do that? he saw him 1-2 times a month. I really think some guys just don't get that feeling, well, I know they don't get those feelings like us moms do, they are wired different. so until they have something in common with the kids, they don't always bond well.

at least though you are able to get your life on track... as for SO2, that would be difficult when your constantly being dragged back in.

enjoy these peaceful moments. I'm glad you had a good weekend with K. they grow up fast.

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."