I suppose it is just the way I see it, but I don't think you should email her to call the boys. I realize you don't like seeing them disappointed but I feel that you should not do this. However, you should document when she doesn't call them or show up at the games, etc. Does your son ask to call her or do you say something to them first? Your S7 must be a very sensitive child b/c a lot of kids would be so caught up in playing and enjoying their time with dad that they probably wouldn't get that disappointed over missing a call from their mom. Especially considering how upset he was about the things she was saying. Anyway, I know it makes it hard on both of you. I just wish that there was no communication with her while you had the boys. Has your lawyer suggested anything about that?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
