A Little Epiphany - (and a newbie delurking)

[Dia]

And the email exchange below is what brought the 'issues' back to mind in the first place...

From Dia
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Hey there,

A few thoughts to share before I head down south.

Groceries - eat 'em. And don't worry about using the last of something, opening something that's not open or cooking it when I'm not around (the ribs). Anything I buy is for everybody, and contributing makes me feel good.

Housework and clutter - I've been pretty good about keeping my stuff contained and out of your way, but if something bugs you, please tell me. I'll fix it and I wont get upset. I'd much rather know than let something fester and build resentment.

Mornings - if you wake up early and want to be on your computer, please go ahead. If it wakes me up, I'll just go sleep in the big bed. There's no need for you to feel trapped in your own house.

Communication and joint parenting - I've really noticed efforts on your part to communicate with me and share the decision-making on parenting issues. I've also noticed you being an active and involved parent. It works very well when we share the responsibilities of getting kidlet out the door in the morning, with me getting him dressed and fed and you making his lunch. I also appreciate you taking such an active role in things like bedtime, holding to curfew, having them check in at the house, etc. Thank you! I love seeing this!! I will continue my efforts to do the same.

Ok, gotta hit the road. I'll be back Saturday evening.

Cheers,

Dia

-------------H's reply-----------

Thanks, Dia.

You've been doing a great job on the clutter. I appreciate that. There is the matter of there being more furniture-type stuff in the house now, but we can integrate it.

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