WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 11

[confusedinpa]

My lawyer said that I should send an email or text so to avoid a confrontation as well as document the issue.

OK - how about this:

When I picked up the boys on Thurs, they told me they were upset when they were told that I was doing bad things. Our 7 year said he was sad when he heard that from you and our 3 year said he was mad. Our 7 year said he did not believe what you said was true but did not want to say anything to you as he was afraid you would be mean to him

Your adultery goes against the commitment we made to each other. The damage that your infidelity has brought upon us and our boys is already done, I do not appreciate you adding to their pain and suffering. I continue to honor my promise to protect them to the best of my ability, I would expect that you will be able to do the same and do not try to alienate the children from me.

Any thoughts?