I found a new counselor this past week for myself. I could tell right off the bat she's a good fit. Thank God...
S is much, much better today. We still have a lot to deal with when it comes to my in-laws and some false accusations made. In some respects it will be a very delicate situation to deal with as the one making the allegations is the daughter of my BIL that passed away in June.
On a positive note, H and I became a united front last night in dealing with this issue. We spoke with S together and overall it went really well. We are both 100% behind S and will stick together and deal with the issues as necessary.
In regards to my M, I am still in the dark. I have done well in not asking relationship questions or talking about OW. I have not snooped in a few weeks. (though I've been tempted I have refrained)
The most difficult part is waiting it out and not knowing. H shows signs here and there of wanting to work on things but I do not push at all. I had a girls night this week, which was great. S and I are going to my sister's for most of the weekend. I have quite a few things planned next week...I have joined the PTA at my S's school. This is all in the spirit of GALing.
Patience...it's a quality that I've never really embraced...and now I have no choice. Boy oh boy what a pill to swallow.
Me: 39 H: 39 S: 15 M: 18 years Bomb: 6/3/09 H moved out: 10/15/09 H moved back:5/30/10
