Quote: I don't really have a family doctor to ask for a counselor recommendation. I don't go to the doctor very often, and I'm on a PPO where I don't have to have a primary care physician. I've been meaning to find a doctor to "call my own", but unfortunately I don't really think about it until I have some reason to go to the doctor.
Which is what many do. Not sure if I asked this before but does your company have a hotline you can call for a reference or help?
Quote: Hope your Friday night plans to initiate went well - I suppose I might find out as I catch up on the threads from the weekend.
Yes, the plans were successful.;) We went out and playe a couple of hours worth of pool and when we came home H made a point of telling me that he knew about the dart and wasn't going to remove it. And it seemed that H was more playful and relaxed. It was actually fun. Saturday morning we made a point of together taking the dart out of the board and placing it back in its case.
Nothing has happened since Friday, which is OK. If H doesn't make a move by Wednesday I will again.
The med I'm on seems to have kicked in. Feeling much better about life in general. The only thing that really has me down is my inability to lose the weight I've put on since moving in with H. I'd done so well--losing over 50 lbs & keeping it off--then in the past year I've put back 30 of it. H tells me he loves me and I know he does but I don't feel good about myself and the aches/pains in joints are coming back. Will need to speak to Family Doctor about it next week.
Good luck, Sooner. I think you're going to feel much better yourself as soon as you link up with a C.