It has been 4 months since W dropped the bomb. NO ILY's or same bed since then. We have drifted back to being very friendly to each other. But no affection.
As for the calls and I'm's, 90 percent of the time, I let her initiate. Before the bomb, we called and I'm'd allday.
I got tickets for us to see a show tomorrow - and I would call it a date. She is acting like a W in some respects. She plans things for "us" that are months down the road. If you saw us at home, even after we put the kids to sleep and its just us, you would not know anything is wrong.
So, I am open to any suggestions to coax her back to me.