Oh, BTW, you were talking about all the women in the room at the school and wondered if your W noticed she was not the only one in the room. What she will really notice is if any of those women start giving you the eye! Then.....you will see a big ole 180 in her....and fast! Just human nature.
You said you were emailing or TM her almost every day.....have you always done that? B/c that seems to be pursuing to me, but if it has no backlashes, I suppose it is okay. However, I noticed she calls "you" if you don't take the time to call her each day.....hummmmm.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!